5 quotes from For Men Only: A Straightforward Guide to the Inner Lives of Women : ‘Even if a woman knows in her head that her husband finds her beautiful. For Men Only has ratings and reviews. If you read my review on Ms. Feldhahn’s other book, ‘For Women Only,’ I think you won’t be surprised that the. Shaunti and Jeff have unearthed a treasure chest of insights—eye-opening and life-changing.” —Andy Stanley, senior pastor, North.

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She is not sharing to look for solutions. It’s not that this book was bad per se. I listened to a Christianaudio version that was available felshahn Hoopla.

Speak to her, tell her that you might did something wrong and ask her to help you to understand her. Refresh and try again. The little girl still lives inside her. Tell her how magnificent she looks, be specific when complementing her.

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Oct 15, Heather rated it did not like it Shelves: He writes that sometimes one of his male friends asks his wife, “Am I talking to my sweet wife Lori, or Helga the crazed mutant? Scripture teaches us to put the needs of others before our own and these books are helpful in doing just that.

I really liked reading this book and marking it up. My issues with both books are the same. At several points, male emotions come into play – but these are discarded as ignorant, irrelevant, or unimportant.

She may not want to have sex with you, but she will enjoy it as much as you when she is in the action.

When you see or feel something is wrong between you and your women, ask her what’s wrong? I think the points made by the feeldhahn are pretty much spot on for explaining how most women think and why we react as we do, and Jen found myself nodding in agreement many t I chose this as a “book targeted at the other gender” for Tim Challies’ reading challenge.

Her content guides and changes lives. Feb 19, J. They all explained to me that they believe the book was good for anyone at any point in their relationship, whether they have been married for decades, newly married, or even those who have yet to be married could all benefit from this book. I read this just to make sure my husband was getting reliable information when he read it I just didn’t know how. We usually get angry or defensive when they answer our question the first time we ask.


This book manages to accomplish that, because it’s not afraid to quote from the horse’s mouth, as they say.

Shaunti received her graduate degree from Harvard University and was an analyst on Wall Street before unexpectedly becoming a social researcher, best-selling author and popular speaker. Dozens of prominent organizations and leaders are coming together to do The Day Kindness Challenge, and encourage their followers to do the same. His wise male friend’s advice, “ask her if he is talking to his sweet wife Lori or Helga the crazed mutant?

But overall, I wouldn’t say it was a waste of time – it was better than some other marriage books I’ve read. Mar 19, Pages. My wife and I did it together and loved it. Women have several windows open at felchahn, all Hopefully this book does not “Blow Your Mind”, because if it does, you probably didn’t know jack squat about women whatsoever.

The power of effective listening. For instance, Chapter 7 is titled The Girl in the Mirror and is sub-titled “What the little girl inside your woman is dying to hear from you–and how to guard your answer well. Feldhhan may be visual, but wasn’t the point of this book to me them what they CAN’T see? Understand that she could be onyl from all day long, and her sexual drive is less than you.

This was a great read for anyone–male or female–in a relationship.

For Men Only Quotes by Shaunti Feldhahn

I like that those ideas aren’t incredibly secular, nor are they dirty. The felduahn book highlighted more specifics, like how men enjoyed it when their women ‘played with them’ – enjoyed the same diversions, like golf or even just watching sports together.

It helped me feldhan a few areas I really need to work on and reinforce others where I had been able to improve over the recent past. This sort of heavy-handed blame-game lurks throughout the book, and makes it upsetting, offensive, even unbearable to man forced to read it by itself. Jeff Feldhahn uses witt, humor and seriousness to show that women are not as complicated as we make them out to be.


olny I had been prompted to turning back to it after listening to a talk on marriage based on the author’s previous book For Women Only. Through hundreds of interviews and the results of a scientific national survey of women, this book demonstrates that women are actually not random and that they really can be systematized and “mapped. Well, not “my women”!

Every couple of pages this strange quoting mechanism is fepdhahn. This chapter is on the sexual relationship between you and her, and how her “NO” to sex does not mean it is because of you.

I chose this as a “book targeted at the other gender” for Tim Challies’ reading challenge. Jan 04, Kayleen Mackey rated it liked it. You msn minimize them but they can’t just go away until the anxiety is directly resolved.

For Men Only: A Straightforward Guide to the Inner Lives of Women by Shaunti Feldhahn

Any man in a relationship or even considering a relationship. Try to understand her, repeat those feeling to her to assure her that you gave her your attention. This simple map will guide you to loving your wife or girlfriend in the way she needs to be loved. About halfway through this book roughly half an hour into reading this book I started thinking that it was a very well intentioned, pretty well reseached and weirdly poorly written text– and I stand by that to some extent.

Shaunti and Jeff not only answer this question, they eliminate the confusion that has kept far too many men from bridging the gender gap. That being the case, though, this book has some shortcomings.